Have You Asked?

Do you ever ASK how you can be better? 

Not just ask yourself the tons of ways we THINK we should be better. 

But, do you ever ask the actual people you want to be better for? 

Recently, Jim and I asked our kids... what can we do to be better parents? And the answers were surprising! I expected less chores and later bedtimes( I was only partially right!) 

💕Samantha wanted me to read to her alone every night. 

💕Shiloh wanted 15 minutes of undivided attention when she comes home from school to talk about her day (without me staring at my computer). 

💕And Joshua wanted a much later bedtime on the weekend to game with his friends.

Done. Done. Done.

Being better and showing up big for those you love isn’t always about the big things, it’s about what matters to them! 

So who can you ask?

•How can I be a better mommy to you?

•How can I be a better wife to you?

•How can I be a better friend to you? 

•How can I be a better leader to you?

•How can I be a better employee to you? 

And don’t forget to ask yourself... How can I be better to YOU this upcoming year!! 

Who wants to be better in 2019??